Helping you heal from trauma so you can reconnect with yourself, your body, and your relationships.
When you’ve experienced trauma, even the parts of life that are supposed to feel good, like intimacy, connection, and pleasure, can feel complicated or overwhelming. You might find yourself emotionally shut down, disconnected from your body, or stuck in painful patterns you don’t fully understand. Whether the trauma happened recently or years ago, it may continue to shape how you relate to yourself and others. At Sexual Wellness Institute, we provide trauma therapy grounded in compassion, consent, and clinical expertise. Our therapists specialize in the intersection of trauma and sexuality. We offer a safe and affirming space to process your past and reclaim the parts of yourself that have been silenced, shamed, or shut down.
What Is Trauma?
Trauma is not just what happened to you. It also includes how your nervous system responded when something overwhelmed your ability to cope. This can include single, defining events such as abuse, assault, or accidents. It can also come from repeated experiences like emotional neglect, chronic invalidation, or controlling relationships. Common trauma symptoms we help with include:
Emotional numbness or shutdown
Anxiety, panic, or hypervigilance
Difficulty trusting or connecting with others
Shame, guilt, or low self-worth
Intrusive memories or flashbacks
Sexual difficulties or avoidance
Feeling disconnected from your body
Our Approach to Trauma Therapy
Our approach is holistic and integrative. It honors both the emotional and physical impact of trauma. We go beyond talk therapy to address how trauma lives in the body and nervous system. Our therapists use a range of evidence-based tools, including:
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) to help process traumatic memories and replace negative beliefs with more supportive ones
Brainspotting, which uses focused eye position and relational attunement to access and release trauma held deep in the brain
Somatic and mindfulness practices to support nervous system regulation and body awareness
Relational and attachment-based therapy to rebuild trust, connection, and emotional safety
How Trauma Impacts Sexuality and Relationships
Even if your trauma was not directly related to sex, it can still affect intimacy, desire, and connection. Many people come to therapy feeling confused, ashamed, or frustrated by how trauma has impacted their relationships and sexual experiences. You might notice:
We specialize in working with clients who are navigating these challenges. Our goal is to help you heal the underlying trauma and reconnect with your sexuality in ways that feel safe and empowering.
Sexual Trauma Therapy: Reclaiming Your Body and Your Voice
If you are healing from sexual trauma, you are not alone. Unwanted sexual experiences, abuse, coercion, or boundary violations can leave a lasting imprint on how you feel about your body, your sexuality, and your sense of worth. You might carry beliefs like:
I am broken because of what happened
Sex is dangerous or shameful
My body is not safe
I should feel guilty for wanting or enjoying sex
We offer specialized therapy for survivors of sexual trauma. Using tools like EMDR and Brainspotting, we help clients gently process what happened, reduce shame and self-blame, and build a renewed sense of safety and agency. You are never pushed to share more than you are ready for. Your pace, boundaries, and needs come first.
What to Expect from Trauma Therapy at SWI
In your sessions, you can expect:
A compassionate and collaborative relationship with your therapist
A pace that feels safe and manageable
Tools for grounding and nervous system regulation
Gradual, supported processing of traumatic memories
Support for reconnecting with your body and sexuality
A growing sense of safety, agency, and empowerment in your sexuality
Many clients tell us they feel more clear, calm, and connected after sessions. Over time, they begin to experience themselves and their relationships in new and more fulfilling ways.
You Deserve to Heal
Whether you are working through sexual trauma, feeling stuck in patterns from the past, or simply trying to feel more whole and present, support is available. Healing does not mean forgetting or minimizing what happened. It means reconnecting with your sense of self, safety, and possibility. At Sexual Wellness Institute, we are here to help you move forward with care, clarity, and connection
Beginning EMDR therapy with one of our skilled sex therapists at our Plymouth, MN counseling office can be simple and worry-free. Set your doubts and fears aside and let us help address trauma or unsettling experiences that have been hard to shake. All you have to do to get started is:
Begin your journey toward a more fulfilling sexual relationship
Other Sexual Wellness Institute Services
Sexual concerns often have many layers. We know these issues are complex so, at Sexual Wellness Institute, we also offer sexual desire therapy, couples counseling and specialized services for teens. Let us enhance your sexual health in a meaningful and comprehensive way. Ask your therapist about additional resources in your area.